“Oh, don’t worry. I have enough disappointment for both of you.”
Frank laughed.
Then his voice became serious.
“There’s something I wouldn’t let your husband explain.”
“You don’t owe me an explanation.”
“I know. But I’d like to tell you.”
I waited.
“Three months ago, my grandson gave me a birthday card.”
Frank paused.
“I told the boy I’d forgotten my glasses. Then I took that card home and put it in a drawer.”
His voice became quieter.
“Because I couldn’t read what my own grandson had written.”
My eyes filled.
Frank explained that Marian had always helped him with things involving reading.
Letters.
Instructions.
Forms.
Greeting cards.
After her death, he’d managed by memorizing information, asking people for help, and avoiding situations where his difficulties might become obvious.
But when his grandson handed him that card, something changed.
“It was covered in dinosaurs,” he said softly. “Terrible drawings, really. But he was so proud of it.”