But on this night, he sat under the bright lights of national television.
Millions of people were watching.
And Johnny Carson had a choice.
He could rush.
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He could move on.
He could fill the silence.
Instead, he waited.
For three minutes.
And what happened after that became a reminder that sometimes the greatest gift we can give another person is simply the patience to let them be heard.
The Letter From a Mother Who Refused to Give Up
The story began months earlier with a mother named Patricia Bennett.
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Like many parents of children with autism, Patricia knew her son in a way the outside world did not.
Other people saw his struggles.
They saw what he could not do.
They saw the moments when communication became difficult.
But Patricia saw something else.