After seven years together, I thought I knew the man sitting across from me.
By the end of our Valentine’s Day dinner, I realized I didn’t know him nearly as well as I thought.
And it all came down to one question about the bill.
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He chose the restaurant, made the reservation and told me to dress nicely because he wanted the night to be “special.”
That word stayed with me.
Special.
After seven years together, it was difficult not to wonder whether it meant something more.
We had talked about marriage before. Not constantly, and never with a firm timeline, but enough that I knew we both supposedly saw it somewhere in our future.
So when Valentine’s Day arrived and he suddenly became unusually secretive about our plans, my mind naturally started wandering.
I tried not to get ahead of myself.
Maybe it was simply dinner.
Still, something about him felt different that evening.
He seemed nervous.
At the restaurant, he kept touching the inside pocket of his jacket.
Once, I noticed him glance toward it before quickly returning his attention to me.
My heart started racing.
I told myself not to assume anything.
But then he began talking about us.
He brought up our first date.
He laughed about the tiny apartment we had practically lived in during our early years together.
He remembered the vacations that had gone wrong, the arguments that seemed enormous at the time and the difficult periods we had somehow survived.
“Seven years,” he said at one point, smiling across the table.
“I know.”
“Feels crazy, doesn’t it?”
“A little.”
Then he asked where I imagined us seven years from now.
That was when I became almost certain.
I pictured the evening ending with him getting down on one knee.
I could already imagine calling my mother.
I wondered what the ring looked like.
I even became nervous about whether I would cry.
Dessert arrived.
Nothing happened.
Then the server placed the bill on the table.
My boyfriend picked it up, looked at the total and casually said, “Want to split it?”
I stared at him.
“What?”
“Dinner. Fifty-fifty?”
For a moment, I genuinely thought he was joking.
This wasn’t about whether I could afford my half. We had split expenses plenty of times during our relationship.
