Brad Pitt, wearing a classic black tuxedo, crisp white shirt, black bow tie, and dark sunglasses, shared a candid moment with Ines de Ramon, whose black gown featured an open-back design. | Source: Instagram/lauriezanoletti
The quickly drew . While some praised De Ramon, others questioned whether her gown suited the occasion. “She looks beautiful polished instead of nightwear outfits,” one commenter wrote. Another had a different view, saying, “Dress not appropriate for a wedding.”
One person questioned the gown’s details, writing, “What is with that dress??? That thing hanging off the shoulder in some pics. Up in some pics. Looks like fraying fabric in the one Pic under her armpit. Lol. I would think there’s a better option of a dress out there for her.”
Another commenter felt the dress was too revealing for the occasion, while someone else remarked, “Oh gosh I think she looks lovely but not dress for a wedding. Not that the dress is bad, it’s just a summer wedding, so just my thought.”
Ines de Ramon posed in her floor-length black gown, showing off its asymmetrical neckline and softly draped silhouette. The wedding guest look later divided commenters, with some praising its polished elegance and others questioning whether it was appropriate for the occasion. | Source: Instagram/lauriezanoletti
soon shifted from fashion to the couple’s appearances. “Is it me or he looks younger [sic],” one person asked about Brad. Others drew comparisons between De Ramon and Pitt’s ex-wife, Angelina Jolie. One commenter wrote, “She looks more like Angelina than Angelina,” while another asked, “Ummm looks like Angelina has a twin?”
A harsher observer focused on both members of the couple, claiming, “A lot of plastic surgery between these two. Brad’s got a whole new face and head of hair.”
With Pitt and De Ramon joining Lopez in choosing black for the summer celebration, the reactions revived a familiar wedding guest debate: Is wearing black to a wedding still considered inappropriate?
The reactions to Lopez’s outfit revives a question that has divided wedding guests for years: Is wearing black to a wedding still considered inappropriate?
According to a November 2025 etiquette guide published by , the tradition dates back to the Victorian era, when black clothing was closely associated with mourning.
For illustration purposes: A model walks the runway at the Mila Hoffman show during New York Fashion Week | Source: Getty Images
Because people observing mourning customs generally avoided celebrations, black gradually became viewed as an unsuitable color for weddings. Fashion etiquette has evolved considerably since then.
Bridal stylist Anny Choi told Vogue that the rule now feels antiquated, describing black as “a great staple option” that can be worn to multiple weddings.
For illustration purposes: A model walks the runway at the Naeem Khan Spring/Summer 2017 Bridal Collection | Source: Getty Images
Alexandra Macon, co-founder of Over the Moon, agreed, saying the color is “perfectly acceptable, and chic,” provided the overall look feels festive rather than funereal.
Emily Post’s Wedding Etiquette also states that virtually every color, including black, is acceptable for modern weddings. Experts note that the biggest consideration is the couple’s requested dress code.
For illustration purposes: A model poses for a photo during Elissar Bridal New York Bridal Fashion Week Reveal | Source: Getty Images
They also recommend thinking about the season, venue, fabric, and time of day, since those elements often influence whether a black outfit feels appropriate for the occasion.
Although Gomez, Hadid, and Lopez approached wedding guest dressing in completely different ways, each showcased a distinct vision of formal style. Their looks offered three contrasting interpretations of elegance, proving there is no single formula for making an impression at a black-tie celebration.
